Have you ever noticed how we sometimes tend to complicate things, looking for some complex solution to what is an otherwise simple and straightforward problem? When it comes to finding solutions to the problem of getting your ex back, the majority of us will look for some sophisticated method to fix the situation.

I have personally found that, in reality, the best course of action is the simplest. Try to get a handle on your emotions first, then make sure that you give your ex some time in the days following the split. In fact, if there is only one thing you do, that should be it. You would be surprised at the difference this can make. From there, it is a simple matter of gradually re-establishing contact.